Sometimes a rainy Sunday is perfect for revisiting favorite movies, and Gus Van Sant's black comedic true crime satire, To Die For is definitely a favorite of mine. The cast is at their peak. Matt Dillon is radiantly slovenly and Nicole Kidman still looks like a blooming real human being and, in a career of very few bright spots performance-wise, she's brutally excellent as a psychopath. She is the blond, perfectly coiffed personification of a certain fame seeking, ambitious, and broken part of our culture. Ileana Douglas also shines and look out for cameos by David Cronenberg and the films screenwriter, Buck Henry.
While the film satirizes the searing ambition that can lead people to kill, and points out our insatiable lust for the torrid tabloid tales that follow, it's also one of the best examples of true crime entertainment. Any fan of Joaquin Phoenix would also agree that it's one of the steamiest as well. (Which is a little creepy considering the story's of a teenager seduced into murder by a grown woman.)
Here, as the seduced teenage burnout, Phoenix is pretty much the embodiment of my teenage desires: he's off-kilteredly handsome, blindly lustful, denim and leather dirty, very dumb and a little bit sad. One can't help but feel a pang of sympathy for the kid as he sits in a junk yard looking off in the distance, walleyed and slack jawed and calls his polka dot and manicured mistress “clean” with longing.
The film is based on the novel To Die For, which was itself inspired by the true, sordid, tabloid sensation crime of one Pam Smart. Also a call in show called Metal Madness), Pamela also seduced a boy (Billy Flynn) and convinced he and his friends to kill her husband. She is currently serving a life sentence without the possibility of parole and Flynn, having served more of his life in prison that outside, recently asked for (and was denied) a reduced sentence.
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Movies of the week
To Die For
See more: Movies, 1990s, True Crime
Songs of the week
So Easy, Blue on Blue, and Mr Lonely
Electronic music is not the most familiar genre to me (compared to say, obscure love ballads from the 50's), and it's the inclusion of a sample of the great, dreamy Bobby Vinton (of Blue Velvet fame) song that drew me to the Royksopp song, So Easy in the first place.
So you can actually count this as a double entry, because after raving, taking “e” and playing in a field, or any other activity that accompanies electronic music, you should listen to the original Vinton song, Blue on Blue.
And while we're on a roll, check out the equally great Vinton single, Mr. Lonely.
See more: Songs, 1960s, Oldies, Romance
Hunks of the week
Stacy Keach
Recently I've watched a couple Stacy Keach films of old that ranged from the downright unwatchable (Butterfly, which features a train wreck Penthousey, Razzie winning performance by Pia Zadora) and the almost good (Roadgames featuring a charming young Jamie Lee Curtis as a hitchhiker – it really had some suspenseful scenes, but faded into muck by the end).
Both taught me one thing: Stacy Keach was a babe. A burly, bear-like babe with a mischievous twinkle in his eye and the kind of male superstar charisma of hunks from decades past that emanates masculinity with a gentle touch. This is a man that can take care of you.
I have to admit I've never seen the character portrayal that made him so famous as the title character in Mickey Spillanes's Mike Hammer. And I can't condone his whole smuggling cocaine into Britain thing, but the man just suffered a stroke (from which he is suspected to recover from completely) so I won't hold his sordid doings against him too much.
See more: Hunks, Actors
Style Icons: Female of the week
Mimi Weddell
Every quote attributed to (“I take a teaspoon of brandy when I feel spacey. It makes me come alive.” and?”I'd sell myself for a hat,”) or about (“Facts are not my mother's strong point”) adds to the charm of the willowy actress and style icon, Mimi Weddell.
While her old lady stylish eccentricities might call to mind the antics of the Beales, she never seems to teeter into such decrepit derangement. Instead with a motto of “Rise above it!” she's an inspirational wonder with hundreds of hats (she and her millinery obsession are the subject of a 2008 documentary Hats Off that I am excited to see and wish would come to Netflix – check out the Algonquin release party photos here).
Here are some excellent photos of her and her adorably disorganized apartment taken by Brix Picks fave Tim Walker.
See more: Style Icons: Female, Actors, Muses
Desserts of the week
La Stella Communion Chocolate Assortment
One of the joys of living in Greenpoint is that you can pass by a shop and see this pastel and flower surrounded little angel (who will, no doubt be blaring club music and revving his engine in a few years time) staring back at you enticing you to buy chocolates for… communion? (having no ability to read Polish nor much knowledge about Catholicism, that's just a guess).
It's really just a shell hiding a normal box of “La Stella” chocolates, but I have to say, in a world of increasingly more elaborate and expensive options, a six dollar box that holds a nicely bitter pistachio creme candy is a welcome treat.
See more: Desserts, Candy, Greenpoint, Polish
Spend a Couple Hours of the week
Wii Fit
WiiFit is fun and good for you with those cute little graphics that Nintendo is known for (though I wish our instructors were more wobbly head looking and less realistic) but I have to say, it's not the toughest workout ever – though some of the balance games are hard to master and I never do well when it comes to following dance steps.
Taking virtual jogs with miis and wiis and Nintendo doggies right beside me is quite a joy and the system will also be great for accurately measuring my progress as Jim and I have begin a new summer time get back to eating right and exercising phase.
There is a definite focus on balance, a focus that I think seems foreign to westerners but I hope that, as it promises, will improve my posture.
I haven't gotten any additional games to go with the system yet, but anything called Rayman Raving Rabbids TV Party must be fun, right?
See more: Spend a Couple Hours, Games, Health/Beauty, Home/Self Improvements
Places to Visit of the week
Atlantic City
Hey guys, we didn't get around to a day trip this weekend like I planned, so Jim submitted this brief Atlantic City overview.
Not too, too long ago, my former boss and I headed down to AC to scope out the annual Imprinted Sportswear Show. The conference was pretty off the hook, but my companion was antsy for some real entertainment, so not long after arriving at the Convention Center (located at One Miss America Way, by the way), we hit the Borgata.
In most of the anecdotes I've heard, AC's always been derided as a low-rent dump: one friend got bit by a spider in a moderately priced hotel; another (guilty of nothing more than wearing a backpack — which is only a crime on the subway), was invited by a scruffy looking dude to check out the local soup kitchens. My friend (and this happened years before the concept of 'hipster or hobo?' became mainstream), didn't initially comprehend that the scruffy looking dude was homeless and that he (the scruffy looking dude) thought my fairly scruffy looking friend was homeless as well.
But the Borgata was magical! And not sleazy at all; kind of like Mohegan Sun. We played roulette, my gracious employer purchasing all the chips, dined at a Wolfgang Puck-branded restaurant, and we're back home before 8:30. Despite the fact that many of the guests were dressed in shorts, t-shirts and sandals, the place still maintained an upscale and just-built vibe.
I actually returned to the Sportswear Show last year with a former coworker and, I've got to say, the experience just wasn't quite the same. We left a little bit late and hit some heavy southbound traffic, which would have been fine if the iPod we were listening to hadn't kept playing really explicit R. Kelly songs — not that there's anything wring with Sex in the Kitchen or Puttin' My T-Shirt on or Ignition or Bump 'N Grind, but we just felt like the randomizing software was somehow having a joke at our expense as it continued to generate R-rated audio content we were both too comfortable to skip while we idled in stopped traffic.
By the time we reached One Miss America Way, all the adjacent parking lots were full and we had to fan out a little to find a spot. As we drove away from the Convention Center, the seamier side of this fairly seamy city (seemingly unchanged from the days of the Dernsy/Nicholson masterpiece, King of Marvin Gardens) began to reveal itself. My advice is that if you're planning on visiting Atlantic City plan, just like you would in every other metropolitan area, to stick to the inskirts of town.
See more: Places to Visit, Games, New Jersey
TV Shows of the week
Mary Hartman, Mary Hartman
Mary Hartman, Mary Hartman is a very bizarre little piece of television history. Not available to the public for decades, the new release to DVD serves as a joy to those who remember the strange show and a great introduction to an experiment both of and ahead of its time for those that don't.
As a satire on the unrealistic soap operas that fueled house wife's dreams, Mary Hartman, Mary Hartman deals with realistically controversial issues like impotence and masturbation as well as outlandishly inappropriate (for the time) plot lines like cults and mass murder.
If you are unaware of the formula and have not watched old soap operas before (like Jim) you'll find the humor even more difficult to grasp than the rest of us. The tone of the show seems to shift from moment to moment; at times it's goofy, then surreal, then suddenly poignant and a bit depressing.
It's an acquired taste and I'm not sure if I've got it yet, but I was intrigued enough to watch the first nine episodes fairly uninterrupted. Even if it didn't have me in stitches laughing, it kept me strangely fascinated.
See more: TV Shows, 1970s, Comedy, Soap Opera
Recipes of the week
Brussel Sprout Chips
Turning a brussel sprout into a “chip”,?a snack that even my veggie fearing husband devoured in seconds is brilliant. I first got wind of this recipe on the great food blog Serious Eats who in turn found it on Real Food for Real People (which looks like it could be a great spot for more yummy recipes, honey buttered popcorn, anyone?). I loved these so much I made them twice in one week.
See more: Recipes, Vegetarian
Books of the week
A Massive Swelling
Cintra Wilson is a beloved, scathing columnist and the author of one of the books I'm constantly recommending to people (the hilarious Brix Pick Colors Insulting to Nature). In A Massive Swelling: Celebrity Re-Examined as a Grotesque, Crippling Disease, she aims her acerbic wit at the insane world of famous people circa 2000; the book would span multiple volumes to cover all the head shaving and beaver flashing that's happened since.
It's not too often that a book will have me chucking aloud while waiting for food or a subway, but there's little use in resisting the perfectly formulated paragraphs of incredible metaphor and insult. Of Celine Dion she says:
“…the most freakishly mutated creatures the Streisand Machine has coughed out onto society”.
She writes that Sigfried and Roy are:
“…completely freaked out on a vision of themselves as beautiful New Age twin alien butterfly Emperors… they look like wealthy, oversexed soap opera matriarchs… clad in exclusively triangular shoulder pad outfits from Star Trek the Next Generation, midriff safari ensembles or leather pants with giant codpieces and ruffly chemises”
Her's the kind of wit prose that I wish I could concoct without needing years to formulate the prefect wording; I'd love to be able to write with such a great combination of clever humor, pop culture savvy, genuine social commentary, and intelligence… or at least become really good friends with her so I could constantly be entertained.
It's a quick read, and so what if her points can become a tad repetitive and almost just border on preachy? These accounts (that were mostly originally published in Salon) of plastic surgery, divas, the world of ice skating and gymnastics, and New Kids on the Block fan mail are priceless and often ingenius.
See more: Books, Essays, Gossip, Non Fiction
Albums of the week
House Arrest
Literally hard to pin point, Ariel Pink's Haunted Graffiti has the fuzzy lo fi sound of songs playing in the back of a memory – a memory of toddling years in the eighties, listening to mom's Beach Boy albums and much later making out in the back of a car with a shitty stereo distorting college radio over unbridled teenage passions – but then take all those memories and make them just a little bit vaguely creepy and you've got the sound of House Arrest.
Being blissfully unaware of the hype tacked on to the group – though I was quickly made aware by blistering hands folded, “jesus look at this hipster” attitude of pitchfork review, I just really like it. I like that it taps into the past, I like that it makes me a little dizzy and, Bryan Ferry help me, after finally seeing the band's photo I like that they channel the decadence and outer spacey, superficial pizazz of glam bands like Roxy Music.
I've been listening to the album over the past few weeks, and unlike more congealed and clean releases, I still can't pinpoint a single song that I love, it's more of a hazy amorphous cloud that, pun intended, “haunts” unexpected moments. I'll be walking down the street and bits of a weird melody pop into my head. I like it.
See more: Albums, 2000s, Indie
Style Icons: Male of the week
Mel Ramos
If you like your pin up girls with a side of Velveeta (and if you'd stop to think about it, I'm sure you do), then Mel Ramos, pop artist extraordinaire, is for you. Recognized in the genre with fellow artists Andy Warhol and Claes Oldenburg, Ramos's work is fun irreverent and decidedly sexual. It's little wonder that I discovered the artist in an old issue of Playboy magazine.
See more: Style Icons: Male, Artists
Restaurants of the week
Harbour
The nautical themed West Village seafood haven, Harbour has surprisingly little fanfare and buzz, aside from a few mentions on Grub Street, which is good in some ways because my friend was able to book his birthday there with little notice, but bad perhaps in this economy – because for the price and the service, and most importantly the food, it's a place I'd hate to see fall by the wayside.
The most instantly noted element of the restaurant is the d?cor, not unlike some other city hot spots, Harbour gives one the illusion that they are in the dining section of a very wealthy friend's yacht without the hassle of having to actually befriend some jerk who owns a yacht. The staff is as gracious and high class as one would expect to find on such a vessel with (real) worldly accents and a quick smile with every meal.
A pre fixe is available, but requires participation from the entire table. We ordered a la carte, and I believe it ended up being cheaper in the end. I started with the oysters that sat under that old “aren't we fancy” favorite: foam! But I'm not one to turn my nose down on trends, especially when they're executed so deliciously and brinily.
When it came to main entrees, a majority of the table just could not resist the tile fish when we learned that “lop chum” was a Chinese sausage accompaniment. With yellow curry and crispy garlic too, you might think the dish would be confused and intense, but I guess that's where a Michelin star chef comes in handy, because this one of the rare seafood main entrees I've had that has really blown me away.
Butterscotch pudding with brown butter cookies and popcorn was a dessert worthy of the rest of the meal and rich enough to share.
Harbour is a special occasion spot, but for all the wine (cheap, good options available), beer, apps, tea, coffee and desserts we piled in our stomachs, plus sharing the bill for our beloved birthday boy, it all came out to a mere $75 per person. If you know a seafood fiend that wants to be treated right and would enjoy sitting in a fancy pants environment, perhaps under a blown glass chandelier, I couldn't recommend a place more.
See more: Restaurants, Seafood, Soho, Tribeca
Drinks of the week
Chinotto Soda
I've learned by now that when I hangout with our friend Marcus I should always consider what he orders, no matter what, because he's got great taste; some may even call his a sophisticated palette.?So if he says something called Chinotto on a menu is good, alright then, let's try it.
Don't let the cola look nor the citrus flavor definition throw you because it's not quite either. It's more likened to Campari, with a slightly bitter and not too sweet quality that's really refreshing and a welcome change to over-sugary American sodas.
Among other places, you can order Chinotto at inoteca.
See more: Drinks, Italian, Soft Drinks
Spend a Couple Minutes of the week
Marmite
Marmite, also known as Vegemite down under, is an acquired taste that I didn't possess as a kid when my family visited Australia, where the yeast molasses-y condiment sits atop every restaurant table. I was weary then when my brother-in-law pulled a jar out recently; but tastes change and besides, he swore to know the perfect way to eat the delicacy.
What you do is take a nice, yummy crusty bread, spread a bit of butter on it followed by just a dollop of the brown stuff (a little bit will do you, it's quite strong tasting). He was right, it's a heavenly unique taste experience.
Marmite can be found at my favorite place in the world, Marlow and Daughters, and pick up some equally superb tarragon mustard while you're at it!
See more: Spend a Couple Minutes, Australian, Food
Web Sites of the week
Star Magazine
Star Magazine, and I don't mean the one talking about Tori Spelling's boring weight loss, was a short lived but influential magazine from the seventies focused on the wild platform heeled and tap panted world of groupies. It's amazing and sadly, in such demand that back issues can be really hard to find.
We're all in luck though, because the Star Groupie Magazine site offers us all a glimpse at the magic. Prepare to be mind blown and feel incredible urges to fro your hair and wear tube tops.
See more: Web Sites, 1970s, Magazines
Laughs of the week
Postcards from Yo Momma
Thanks to Grace for introducing me to the hilarious and often touching site Postcards from Yo Momma, a showcase of entertaining correspondences that make you rejoice in the unique relationship between daughters and their mothers – especially that special time when you start seeing each other as adult women and friends. It's often updated and a great way to laugh for hours. A couple of my favorites are:
Mom: How do I unfriend on Facebook?
Me: What, you only have like 8 friends, who do you want to get rid of.
Mom: That's really none of your business, and I have 40 friends thank you very much.
Me: That's right, Dad has 8 heheh
Mom: Not for long!
and
“Didn't you say your dad took a golden shower at that bar he was at in the city? I've been telling all of my friends but your dad says I am wrong and I probably shouldn't repeat this story. Am I using the term correctly?”
See more: Laughs, True Stories
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